Affinity:And yes there you are:Milestone achieved

Hey Hey the time is 11:38PM, and look I am writing my thoughts down on the blogger.If by any chance my friends will get a bit of idea that I was awake at this time of clock , then definitely they would tell everyone that I have gone nuts.I have been following a routine of "Early to bed and early to rise" since my stay outside India.However, this day/time brought me surprise of my inner-self.You might be puzzled where I am leading to by saying all this crap.

A monotonous working day in office,tea two times a day,and a boring lunch drives you and makes you feel one thing that you gotta do something which drives you crazy and insane.A game of table tennis after work,a feeling of tiredness, and fluffiness of the mattress made me sleep early.However, unknown of my self conscious I woke up and found nothing to do.Here I come to the point,as I don't have my love of life besides me I thought what was my second priority for a spare time activity, and bingo it was an article out of nothing :)

To remain as concise as possible such that readers will gain insight to their life as best as they can,I would like to drive you on just one word and will elaborate on it and that is "Affinity". It is an eight letter word, but it can explain/solve thousands of mysteries of people around.Be it a intelligent guy gets down in his career,a young guy betrayed by his love, or a house wife frustrated by her long,ill awarded routine,the answer to each question is affinity.

To elaborate on it,let us consider what the movie "3 Idiots" taught us.The movie readily quoted that you do something as your career which drives you crazy and the success will follow.And yes to some extent it is true unless or until some other thing also drives you crazy and that is money.Metaphorically, as going downstream is easy and effortless,you just have to give yourself some direction and the flow will drive you somewhere to some unknown place.However, upstream is difficult as you have to work against the flow.Implicitly, when you compare this analogy with real life it just can't get simpler.In that , consider an example of a guy whose hobby is playing guitar and he wants to pursue his career as a musician/guitarist. Now there will be two types of energy which will surround him one is positive and other is negative.The positive energy links to the upstream and the negative energy links to the downstream.There exists some people who will demotivate this guy quoting all financial gains which he could get by getting more educated.Nonetheless, there will be some who will motivate him to pursue his HOBBY as a CAREER.Now the ratio of demotivate to motivate will be greater than 1.

So working upstream this lead guitarist has to define his milestone and journey,facing all hardships along. Furthermore, the downstream journey seems to be easy and fruitful for now, but the milestone in the end would be fruitless.The monetary gains in the downstream journey may be more than the upstream journey.However, the satisfaction levels would differ greatly and it would be more in the case of upstream.


Now as a reader you might be lost as I started with an awkward example of my daily routine,proceeded with an example of a guitarist and his two career paths, and now would like to end this article by picturing AFFINITY.

It is the affinity to a task which drives a person crazy, and if you are crazy enough to perform a task/hobby/spare time activity then definitely this would gonna give you fruits in the start of the journey , in the middle , or in the end of journey.No matter how much you SLOG to achieve this milestone , you would have a 100% satisfaction level which would be revealed by your performance and efficiency in your tasks.

DO WHATEVER YOU WANT MONEY WILL COME AUTOMATICALLY TO YOU !!

Nature's exploit unregretable

The red sky in the dark evening with trees reaching the heights and competing with the sky mesmerizes me.It has been truly very long ever since when I sat down in this chilly evening and wrote this beautiful evening in my own words.The calm and the silence of the night following the dark evening give me a sense of isolation on this barren land.However, like the rats,the people are hidden inside their units to minimize the affect of this chilling winter.

Whenever I feel low I see the sky and then I feel if somehow I could reach there.We have been blessed by nature , but this nature has been cursed by a thing called human being.In that the man is exploiting every part of nature by which he can get maximum profits.Forgetful of the endangered species, he has been hunting animals like anything.When I see my nature the goddess the provider of 100 % of human needs I feel shameful to be a part of human fraternity.However, when I feel shameful because of  my peers I feel ashamed because of my instincts too as even I am contributing 0.1% to the agonies of nature.

True on my part, this instinct always gives me a feeling of guilt.However, this nature calls me every now and then to help her in one or the other way.Moreover, the feeling of this dark reddish evening gives me a great motivation to take a pledge to protect goddess nature because a time will come when the industrial pollution will reach a level when I will be unable to see the red color of the sky when the dusk will be about to arrive.This sense should be inculcated in each and every mind.It has to be believed that the count of stars in a village is greater than the count of stars in a city/town having many industries for many obvious reasons.

A feeling pro-nature has to be created in youth of every country because youth has fire and youth is the only key to the locked minds of population of each country.We could do this by enlightening people and bringing up a mass movement against current bad industrial practices which entails profits but doesn't care for nature.They don't know that nature is like our mother , she feeds us with our dire needs,but a day will come when she will get upset and will stop feeding us.Despite waiting for that day to come, we need to step up and take this challenge ahead of theory.We need to have a mass movement to make people believe that nature is our mother and we need to live in harmony with it without exploiting its innocence.

Like a compromise is done in each and every family by the head of the family, be it your father or mother.Nature also till now compromising with the human fraternity and the man is taking advantage of this innocence.However, unaware of power of mother, this poor child continues to exploit her in whichever way it is possible to maximize his profits.Unknown of the disasters and cruelties which mother nature can bestow upon the human fraternity, man is a foolish creature who even after repeated lessons given by nature continues to exploit her.A day will come when he himself will regret on his deeds for which he would not be able to undo.Because time never comes again, so poor man help yourself.

Yeh Delhi Hain Mere Yaar

Yeh Delhi hei mere yaar......bas ishq mohabbat pyaar.....!!!!The song composed which was a real hitter from the film Delhi-6 does not only shows that "Dilli hei dil walo ki" but also signifies the blend of mix cultures that live in harmony @ Delhi.Please don't get me wrong I am not a Delhite as they say when at a typical interview day and you me a guy/gal who blabbers in English you say yes "This guy/gal is a delhite and he /she is just flaunting" :P.That is the peril which people feel for a delhite.I am not born in delhi it has just been above two years that I have been in delhi,but yes I am in love with this place.

Be it old Delhi or New Delhi you can find people from every state ,every religion living and pursuing their business in harmony.Yes,when I say I am proud to live in Delhi I mean it,the place has various cultures ,traditions,views.Be it chandni chowk where you can shop around for your marriage or be it cannuaght place where you can buy cheap and durable stuff.This is the place where the Rickshaw puller wears a branded shirt of Armani and to my delight the beggar wears a pair of shoe of Nike/Reebok, it is possible only in delhi.Coming to the food delicacies you have non-veg/beg options anywhere you go in delhi.

The most famous "paranthe wali galli" @ chandni chowk or for non-veg you can move to "Karim's".Khan chacha is another favorite of non-veg lovers.Coming to the upbringing of cultural tradition in Delhi we have an image of whole of India @ Delhi Haat where a display of food and art from each and every state of our country binds people together.Delhi has much more for art lovers,skipping the much known monuments of old Delhi like Lal Quila/jama masjhid we have hauz khas village for the designers.

And like me there are millions who found true love of their life @ Delhi.I hope after reading a brief introduction about "Dil walo ki nagari" you may find it instigating that you would like to visit Delhi at once.And yes I bet on that that you gonna love it.Its not just the Delhi metro where you just name the place and Delhi metro will serve you or be it a optimal service of DTC bus ,the love and affection this place offers won't let you leave this city.
 Saurabh

A real Hero!! A real role model !!

It was the time of peak summers ,it was all dry everywhere ,the leaves ,the trees ,the people around ,it was a peak summer ,all sweat on humans.While I drove away from Jaipur to Delhi with my elder sister for meeting my brother in law.A keen guy ,and when I say keen its in all aspects of his characteristics.He was keen for meeting people,he was keen for serving people around,he was keen for enjoying moments,he was keen for helping relatives ,friends and even his foes which I challenge he might not be having as far as I know him.By the time our bus entered the well known "Bikaner House" at cannuaght place ,New Delhi,there was a person waiting inside the car for us.It happens with people usually that you meet a person you feel strange ,the counter party has the same feeling and yes being no exception I felt the same.It was mere communication of 2-3 lines I noticed the guy having respect for all surrounding him.Yes we reached home it was the dusk of I think one of the days from June first week 2006.It would have been years with him life long but the moment it turned against us it wasn't the demise of a single person,it was a demise of entire ambiance he created for my family and he made everyone happy.Be it initiating the diagnose of my mother who is struggling from 'Arthritis' ,a creature who now also don't know how to thank him as he disappeared without telling us where he is going.

Its not I have to count his good work because if I would start I will end up in the dawn counting his good work.Well this guy his name is "Karun Arora" a young blood with a cool heart,a dedicated employee,husband,son,brother ,and most important I must say for me technically he was "brother-in-law",But after I met him and the days which passed by he himself deleted "in-law" part from the word from my heart.I always felt him as an elder brother,a self motivated person who created a positive energy all around,a person with whom you don't have to share your emotions he just reads you and asks what the problem was.Its been 4 years of life with him,I always fought with my mother that I she didn't gave me brother who was always there in my failures and success,he was the person who filled that gap during my period of struggle when I gave my interviews.Day in Day out be it a 11 o clock in night or 4 o clock in the morning he will serve you ,may be your family,relatives,frens and off course office.

Its not that my writing is very limited if I will write for him,but its true the 4 years he gave us were full of life.The weekend drinks ,the outing @ malls in gurgaon,and the shopping it was all fun with him .He suggested me with ideas I was stumbling on making decisions.You take any example of this person and you will see one peculiar thing /characteristic of his which is hard to find in today's world and that was a characteristic of "Serving Others".You ask him a favor and I bet he will be at your doorstep without complaining and without expecting anything in return.May be I haven't met him many a times,but the time I spent with this person I used to laugh laugh and just laugh,the drinks the snacks,pulling up bottles for weekend,the "egg bhurji' and much more.Very honestly the time you departed till now I haven't felt you but the smile on my "bhanji's" face tells it all.We people are sinners and don't deserve your attention its true,but I just wanna say few lines which I hope is conveyed to you:

Oh nadaan parindey
Ghar aaja..
Oh nadaan parindey
Ghar aaja..

Yes ,We are sinners and that is why we are punished with the calamity which happened to be on"11 Mar 2011" a year of darkness ,a year of sorrow , a year which will be in our diaries , a year which passed and now I am feeling as if I had seen you long back .You might have left this world but surely

Power Of Sub-Conscious !!!

Far from the personal experiences and taking examples from the lives of the people I have been speculating about the dilemma that accompanies everybody's life.Yes the dilemma that every time bugs you in your mind ,the dilemma of the purpose of your life ,the dilemma about the definition of a real ideal life,a dilemma of the aim and target in life and many more.My say for this point of time is just let it go and enjoy the life let the dilemma be handled by your sub conscious.

When in the early morning you wake up with the sunlight reaching your face directly or indirectly your sub conscious mind takes time to come into real senses and treat the day like a daily routine day.Your sub conscious takes time to revive the speed/power and to comply with the daily routine.Have you ever speculated how we pursue inchoate thinking with our sub conscious mind?The answer is no,as the human mind behaves awkwardly with the sub conscious.You want to know each and everything about how a sub conscious works I would suggest you to talk to a person who is drunk.

To let the dilemma be handled by your sub conscious mind I mean to say that the questions that you want to ask your self you convey it to your sub conscious which in the end communicates with the inner self and gets the answers.So,if you can infer the sub conscious works as an interface between you and your inner self and then your queries are answered.

I never say that clarifying dilemma is sole prerogative of the sub conscious I would rather suggest you to treat sub conscious as your friend to let it go and clear your dilemmas so that you may devote your time not clearing the dilemmas but just focusing on your personal and professional life.Though the saying again goes true "easy said then done", because human mind is a restless creature , it doesn't want to rest it just needs answers to its questions then and there itself,it is the most impatient one.So ,the patience needs to be imbibed and let your sub conscious discover some of the extraordinary discoveries about your inner self.

Saurabh

Power of Smile

Power of Smile

Not many days before when it was a rainy season and I was upset by my sedentary life style I was craving for something good to happen to me.The great Indian Delights in rainy season is “Samosa and Chai” so I went to the nearest market to my home .For a change I took a route which was short but ironically was tougher one and that too in a rainy season like this ,drenched all over.

It was miry everywhere and it was hard to drive my “90’s” kinetic @20 KMPH (…Smile..) as it used to stop everywhere as if rain was a challenge before Kinetic manufacturers as they get down in rainy season.While I was crossing a road and I lost balance ,I found a person hurrying up from other direction towards me .Being a young blood what will u expect from me ,yes I was fuming up and decided to fume over the other end.

But ironically what happened was after seeing him smiling, my anger went away just in few seconds, rarely this happens in metro cities (I live in sub urbs) where there are ego clashes, people using their powers to belittle opponents which is very critical of them. So when he smiled I imitated him with the same gesture and it was all over .What was the aftermath was ,he left a good impression over me.But had he or me started fighting and arguing it would shown a juvenile nature of us.

A similar case happened when I was crossing a road @ “Dilli-17” which is full of cars cabs and other cars.A peak time of Saturday evening and I was passing this small road.I have a penchant for evening walk on weekends.Everyone in Delhi wants to be first ,Whether an auto driver a richshaw puller a car a bicycle etc.A cab driver driving very fast suddenly saw me crossing road and applies last minute brakes.I was prepared to exhume my anger and ponder over him but his mere smile instigated in me a sense of feeling a sense of maturity of forgiving with a gesture.A smile which made the difference ,A smile if would not have been there @ that time consequences would have been abominable.

The power of smile which destroys harsh feeling for others,a power which always supports you from inner self,a power which is innate you can’t develop it,a power a sense of right or wrong,a power which highlights alter ego,a power which equips you with extra advantage over others,indirectly you are controlling the situation,indirectly u r the epicenter of the earthquake which could have come if u would have not smiled,A POWER OF SMILE

There was a Gal.......There is a Gal.......There will be a Gal !!!!

Tom and Harry going up the hill one fine evening and thinking about there future discussing with each other the kind of gal they like.Tom says to Harry "Now a days we rarely find good gals around " Gals who are cultured ,familial,honest,caring,daring etc.,Usually find gals with very trendy clothes ,with attitude and ego and a self centered approach these gals can allure only fools not me"
Harry "I can't support you on this argument ,as this is 21st century and we ought to have a fast gal as our life partner to run this race of life"Tom said "What if she runs faster then you and divorce you and go with someone else :P.............Just kidding" But on the contrary What if I can have a Combo of Both Cultured and fast lady ...yeah Yeah Watsay harry.Harry was pretty much convinced with the talk then.

Tom went to market on the next day and found a lady who @ the very first sight caught his attention.She wear a decent look on her ,nothing on her can be called trendy it was as if she can wear anything and that anything will look beautiful on her,her eyes gave me the feeling of deep ocean where I can rest @ Odd times.Her hair was as if she just had a coiffure,Her spectacles were like two clouds the magnifying glass which want you to go deep inside her eyes and check for your true Image inside her ,whether she loves you or not,Her smile was so natural as if a 10 year kid is laughing without any motive just smiling as she wants to be happy,The most important part were the earrings they hanged like a valley in between the mountains,like a waterfall falling from a mountain on a hill station.That day I went deep inside her eyes and noted that she will be my true love for sure.When I use to look @ Her I made sure she never knew what was I am doing and every time she approached me I behaved as if there is no importance of her in my life .

Due to some circumstances I never approached and thought let it be if it is a true love and from both sides it will prosper else it won't.And she used to approach me which gave me a hint that she liked me but still I was handcuffed due to personal reasons.I can forget my birth day but can't forget the day she proposed me and from then and on we are happy together.As far as her Zodiac approves what she is and what she will be :P I will be happy with her for whole life

Tom lived a great life ahead with her and harry on the other hand selected a trendy gal for her who divorced him and ran away with some other guy :P