Power of Smile

Power of Smile

Not many days before when it was a rainy season and I was upset by my sedentary life style I was craving for something good to happen to me.The great Indian Delights in rainy season is “Samosa and Chai” so I went to the nearest market to my home .For a change I took a route which was short but ironically was tougher one and that too in a rainy season like this ,drenched all over.

It was miry everywhere and it was hard to drive my “90’s” kinetic @20 KMPH (…Smile..) as it used to stop everywhere as if rain was a challenge before Kinetic manufacturers as they get down in rainy season.While I was crossing a road and I lost balance ,I found a person hurrying up from other direction towards me .Being a young blood what will u expect from me ,yes I was fuming up and decided to fume over the other end.

But ironically what happened was after seeing him smiling, my anger went away just in few seconds, rarely this happens in metro cities (I live in sub urbs) where there are ego clashes, people using their powers to belittle opponents which is very critical of them. So when he smiled I imitated him with the same gesture and it was all over .What was the aftermath was ,he left a good impression over me.But had he or me started fighting and arguing it would shown a juvenile nature of us.

A similar case happened when I was crossing a road @ “Dilli-17” which is full of cars cabs and other cars.A peak time of Saturday evening and I was passing this small road.I have a penchant for evening walk on weekends.Everyone in Delhi wants to be first ,Whether an auto driver a richshaw puller a car a bicycle etc.A cab driver driving very fast suddenly saw me crossing road and applies last minute brakes.I was prepared to exhume my anger and ponder over him but his mere smile instigated in me a sense of feeling a sense of maturity of forgiving with a gesture.A smile which made the difference ,A smile if would not have been there @ that time consequences would have been abominable.

The power of smile which destroys harsh feeling for others,a power which always supports you from inner self,a power which is innate you can’t develop it,a power a sense of right or wrong,a power which highlights alter ego,a power which equips you with extra advantage over others,indirectly you are controlling the situation,indirectly u r the epicenter of the earthquake which could have come if u would have not smiled,A POWER OF SMILE

There was a Gal.......There is a Gal.......There will be a Gal !!!!

Tom and Harry going up the hill one fine evening and thinking about there future discussing with each other the kind of gal they like.Tom says to Harry "Now a days we rarely find good gals around " Gals who are cultured ,familial,honest,caring,daring etc.,Usually find gals with very trendy clothes ,with attitude and ego and a self centered approach these gals can allure only fools not me"
Harry "I can't support you on this argument ,as this is 21st century and we ought to have a fast gal as our life partner to run this race of life"Tom said "What if she runs faster then you and divorce you and go with someone else :P.............Just kidding" But on the contrary What if I can have a Combo of Both Cultured and fast lady ...yeah Yeah Watsay harry.Harry was pretty much convinced with the talk then.

Tom went to market on the next day and found a lady who @ the very first sight caught his attention.She wear a decent look on her ,nothing on her can be called trendy it was as if she can wear anything and that anything will look beautiful on her,her eyes gave me the feeling of deep ocean where I can rest @ Odd times.Her hair was as if she just had a coiffure,Her spectacles were like two clouds the magnifying glass which want you to go deep inside her eyes and check for your true Image inside her ,whether she loves you or not,Her smile was so natural as if a 10 year kid is laughing without any motive just smiling as she wants to be happy,The most important part were the earrings they hanged like a valley in between the mountains,like a waterfall falling from a mountain on a hill station.That day I went deep inside her eyes and noted that she will be my true love for sure.When I use to look @ Her I made sure she never knew what was I am doing and every time she approached me I behaved as if there is no importance of her in my life .

Due to some circumstances I never approached and thought let it be if it is a true love and from both sides it will prosper else it won't.And she used to approach me which gave me a hint that she liked me but still I was handcuffed due to personal reasons.I can forget my birth day but can't forget the day she proposed me and from then and on we are happy together.As far as her Zodiac approves what she is and what she will be :P I will be happy with her for whole life

Tom lived a great life ahead with her and harry on the other hand selected a trendy gal for her who divorced him and ran away with some other guy :P

All is Game of mind.......Just that how well you play it

Let me introduce to my new article which says that Mind is supreme of all ,the instantaneous reactions of people to a particular situation always determines there fate in that particular situation.All is game its just that I well you play in a particular situation.We never know when the game begins we only become aware when the game ends because by the time we have lost the Game and the so called deadly war.A war which was off pride and honor A war which might have instigated people to revere us.

The problem with the human psychology is he/she not identifies the time when the game starts therby leading to a folly situation where one might end up taking his/her life.The proximity to the beginning of the game can be sensed at then the strategy to the game must be planned in order to win it.Most of the time its a make or break situation however if your mind is tough and able to adapt in any situation then you may not fall prey to the predators /opponents.


Another issue arises from the protracted nature of the game .Once one fails, he/she is unable to reinvigorate himself/herself from the crisis in which he/she fallen into during the game.Its very important for you to come out from the situation as soon as possible.

When into the game one might get lost somewhere in some other world thereby neglecting the importance of the game.Its important will only be realized @ the end of the game when most of us will loose it.

Giving maximum to get maximum yield is the age old funda in Indian culture for that famous saying says "Today sown seeds will reap one day" and that day will be your judgement day.Most of the time people from different backgrounds shock me when they say how can we apply our knowledge in the game.Remember this game is a common sense game that a 5 year old might play but the mere difference is that in the level of the game which a 5 year old might face will be lower then yours.

Game depends on your mind and mental toughness its jus that how well u manage !!!!!

The Crucial irony of human Psyche

I know the title might annoy/confuse you to some extent but later on as you will go on reading it you will get a tinge of taste of what I want to convey.Whenever my readers ask me to write about Psychology I hesitate a bit but sometime somehow with the daily happenings in our life one might get instigated with a new idea which pops up into one's mind.

Human Psyche a little known not famous phrase but the most important one.What is Psyche dictionary meaning of psyche is " actuating cause of an individual's life".It means that the factors what cause/effects one's decisions in life its what called a "Psyche".It is what at the back of the mind whatever it works which you are unaware or you may be aware of that @ a later stage is a beautiful creation of god "The Human Mind".When one is born his inchoate behavior is influenced by his/her surroundings.

Its the game of human mind,like for example when we say that "We got tired" it isn't true that we are tired much physically ,its just that our back of mind is suggesting our body to take rest as we are tired.Like vice versa is true when our body asks for rest but our mind is conscious of doing some task which is pending then something happens so that our body is reinvigorated and we are unaware of the fact that it was "Human Psyche" that played behind.So the master flip flop here is the "Mind" and the slave "Flip flop" is the body .Sorry to the reader but the above statement may be understood by technocrats but its not much important to get the essence of my idea.

After giving you the crisp of the matter I want to cite a particular example to prove that "Psyche" plays it over you.When we wake up,with a subconscious mind we think of just a dream which we took last night and we try to think it over and over again and will try to make a overall picture in mind but slowly and slowly as we brush our day it fades away from our mind because our "Psyche" commands here and it knows that daily we have to get on with our routine schedules so earlier we forget the more time we save for the day.

Understanding a "Psyche" in a day is not a piece of cake,years of study pour into with the right logic of study makes you feel comfortable with it.What goes behind the mind that is "Psyche" still remains a Clandestine ........................

Entrances though the word is simple it can be an irony

Entrance exam in India are considered to be a standard set by different central associations to get the cream from the lot.But the irony is after so many quota's and recently we came to know about grace marks to girl candidates and non-engineers precisely we still think we can make it that is we can crack the code of entrance exam.

Though its easily said than done,as far as seats/vacancy in general category says that its toughest to get it from this lot.All depends on psychology of the candidates,its true these exams are considered to be the toughest throughout but clicking/cracking it is a fun/passion and not mere dull/boring sort of a preparation.What all is needed is just think that the question setter himself/herself is a human being with the same intellect as you are having ,he is not an alien and he is no god with whom there are your success keys,its just that he is a bridging the gap between you and success which if you cross on with his help will be easier then you cross it @ some other time with some other opportunity.


To be or not to be you have to be tough not externally but from the soul,you should have a "Can Do Spirit" which can influence your neighbors also moreover the courage to fight this battle where you are all alone in the battlefield on the judgement dat largely depends on your mental toughness than your intellect or knowledge.

Its just that you have to break the code and enter the new world ,a new world of more uncertainty and crispness of more delight and adventure,a new world of which you thought to be a part of it...............A New world.

Just quest for success and it will be all yours

Railways

One night @ Indian railways :

I always feel that Indian railways is a place to get social with thousands of thousands of strangers.No matter you want to be part of conversation or not this is the place where directly or indirectly you will be a part of the conversation when your journey starts.

The time when one enters station of Indian railways,its like a "Chaos" and if you have surfaced economics in your mind you might feel that this is the place where "Demand-Supply" law fails.Its that there are more number of passengers that the number/capacity of trains.Then comes railway staff which is so busy without work like for example you go to the enquiry counter and you find no one to answer your queries no matter your train might leave station in another 5 minutes.You name the place and it is full without any exception be it railway staff office,dormitories,retiring room,platforms,ticket counter,enquiry office etc.

And finally you board your train after so much of hardships for searching the relevant platform for your train.Now once when you move inside your coach getting accustomed to the environment depends on your personality,whether you are introvert or extrovert.If you are introvert then the compartment will be hell for you else if you are an extrovert the comaprtment will be heaven.

Another agenda is who all are your companions.These species vary in may types from region to region and from different age groups.If a marwari family is sitting besides you then consider your comparmtment to be a dinning table with lots of delicacies,you need not carry food for your journey,and they will ruin your diet chart.

Whole night there is incoming and outgoing of passengers.And be prepare to get awake atleast 3-4 times in night to answer queries of other incoming passengers.You might sleep comfortably @ 4:00 morning but then vendors will come and start shouting "chaya " "chaya".You struggle to be @ ur berth and sleep till 7:00 but it all becomes a dream without a dream.

Struggle never ends in when you need to go to wash room for freshening up and you find full train toilets occupied.The golden rule says whenever you enter a toilet in Indian Railways you need to have a glance at it by slightly opening the door then you need to go inside.I will cite a personal experience where I violated the golden rule,I was in hurry rushed to the toilet ,looked at the hot seat and that was clean but suddenly I sensed a foul smell of "Sambhar" yes the sambhar the south Indian dish and bingo the wash basin was full of vommit.So whats the conclusion ,never violate the rule else you will land up like me.


Rules for journey:

Take sleeper class for sleeping purpose only not for toileteries.
If you take sleeper class take upper berth so that you have ownership for 24*7 full journey.
Avoid using toilet if possible else follow the golden rule.

The only thing that exacerbates me is selfishes ,if one says whom I am talking about he/she should be aware of these fishes as they contaminate whole lot of people and when I say lot then it signifies an ocean when we have a customary saying "Ek machli pure talaab ko ganda kar deti hei " is exemplary .So the inference lies in the point of these selfishes what there aim is and how they become happy when there near ones looses.People usually now a days do keep themselves away from these fishes but someday somehow with people being unaware these fishes contaminate there life indirectly.

When water is in its purest form like the water of "Ganga" which scientist are unable to justify reasons for it being pure for whole life,we can also remain in our purest form if kept away from these fishes.The day we born we step into this world,A world of good and as well as bad there are both type of fishes "Selfishes" and "helpfishes",the classification is as simple as the terminology.

Selfishes are those which on there way to success can crush anyone no matter you are there relatives friends or foes the difference being only in whether they crush you directly or indirectly depends on whether you are friend foe or relative.On the other hand "Helpfishes" are those who will help/assist you in every aspect in every situation whether you are stranger /friendly to them .They are always there for you condition being that they are aware of your agonies.

Identifying above two types of fishes is very important aspect of life when you need to prosper in life.Maximizing your growth minimizing your relationships with selfishes and returning back to society and preferably to helpfishes.

Just one question which lot u belong to "Selfishes" or "Helpfishes" :))))))))))

In the sunshine lies darkness !!!!

The phrase that I quoted above its not a saying neither a proverb its just a phrase that may be believed or may not.I may bulwark myself from the truth but I should accept it that every diamond that shines may not be good.Same as that A particular thing that may allure you may not be that good.So go in the deep roots and find that whether the thing is really fruitful to you or not.Take a example of you analyzing a person whether he/she is good for you or not?,so in first or third meet the guy/gal can attract you if for cynical purposes by using his/her wits,but in long run they might jeopardize you.

So better take time in understanding the things despite of going straight away with outer look.There may be darkness inside lighted Bulb,there may be a little hope that the thing might create some nuances.I may say when I look into the sun early in the morning I wish I could go deep within and search it out whether "Sun" is playing a game or whether it is there just for providing heat and sunlight to me and my fellow people.

99% of people ,things may be fake but I just wonder if that 1% stays in the category they should not turn out to be professionals those professionals who are dark inside and bright outside.

Fear of god ,Fear of the supreme power the light you may cover your body with might destroy you in long run if not in short run.Beware of the lightness the brightness you think you are spreading for a purpose which may be good or bad that is dubious.I am just saying be yourself so that others may not find it difficult to understand you after all they are not there for thesis on you and they should not waste there time in understanding you,there are million things to be done by man.

A word for good is be yourself be natural,moment you cover yourself with your so called smartness may turn back to you and can outsmart you someday.

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