Saturday, September 10, 2011

Power of Smile

Power of Smile

Not many days before when it was a rainy season and I was upset by my sedentary life style I was craving for something good to happen to me.The great Indian Delights in rainy season is “Samosa and Chai” so I went to the nearest market to my home .For a change I took a route which was short but ironically was tougher one and that too in a rainy season like this ,drenched all over.

It was miry everywhere and it was hard to drive my “90’s” kinetic @20 KMPH (…Smile..) as it used to stop everywhere as if rain was a challenge before Kinetic manufacturers as they get down in rainy season.While I was crossing a road and I lost balance ,I found a person hurrying up from other direction towards me .Being a young blood what will u expect from me ,yes I was fuming up and decided to fume over the other end.

But ironically what happened was after seeing him smiling, my anger went away just in few seconds, rarely this happens in metro cities (I live in sub urbs) where there are ego clashes, people using their powers to belittle opponents which is very critical of them. So when he smiled I imitated him with the same gesture and it was all over .What was the aftermath was ,he left a good impression over me.But had he or me started fighting and arguing it would shown a juvenile nature of us.

A similar case happened when I was crossing a road @ “Dilli-17” which is full of cars cabs and other cars.A peak time of Saturday evening and I was passing this small road.I have a penchant for evening walk on weekends.Everyone in Delhi wants to be first ,Whether an auto driver a richshaw puller a car a bicycle etc.A cab driver driving very fast suddenly saw me crossing road and applies last minute brakes.I was prepared to exhume my anger and ponder over him but his mere smile instigated in me a sense of feeling a sense of maturity of forgiving with a gesture.A smile which made the difference ,A smile if would not have been there @ that time consequences would have been abominable.

The power of smile which destroys harsh feeling for others,a power which always supports you from inner self,a power which is innate you can’t develop it,a power a sense of right or wrong,a power which highlights alter ego,a power which equips you with extra advantage over others,indirectly you are controlling the situation,indirectly u r the epicenter of the earthquake which could have come if u would have not smiled,A POWER OF SMILE

Saturday, September 3, 2011

There was a Gal.......There is a Gal.......There will be a Gal !!!!

Tom and Harry going up the hill one fine evening and thinking about there future discussing with each other the kind of gal they like.Tom says to Harry "Now a days we rarely find good gals around " Gals who are cultured ,familial,honest,caring,daring etc.,Usually find gals with very trendy clothes ,with attitude and ego and a self centered approach these gals can allure only fools not me"
Harry "I can't support you on this argument ,as this is 21st century and we ought to have a fast gal as our life partner to run this race of life"Tom said "What if she runs faster then you and divorce you and go with someone else :P.............Just kidding" But on the contrary What if I can have a Combo of Both Cultured and fast lady ...yeah Yeah Watsay harry.Harry was pretty much convinced with the talk then.

Tom went to market on the next day and found a lady who @ the very first sight caught his attention.She wear a decent look on her ,nothing on her can be called trendy it was as if she can wear anything and that anything will look beautiful on her,her eyes gave me the feeling of deep ocean where I can rest @ Odd times.Her hair was as if she just had a coiffure,Her spectacles were like two clouds the magnifying glass which want you to go deep inside her eyes and check for your true Image inside her ,whether she loves you or not,Her smile was so natural as if a 10 year kid is laughing without any motive just smiling as she wants to be happy,The most important part were the earrings they hanged like a valley in between the mountains,like a waterfall falling from a mountain on a hill station.That day I went deep inside her eyes and noted that she will be my true love for sure.When I use to look @ Her I made sure she never knew what was I am doing and every time she approached me I behaved as if there is no importance of her in my life .

Due to some circumstances I never approached and thought let it be if it is a true love and from both sides it will prosper else it won't.And she used to approach me which gave me a hint that she liked me but still I was handcuffed due to personal reasons.I can forget my birth day but can't forget the day she proposed me and from then and on we are happy together.As far as her Zodiac approves what she is and what she will be :P I will be happy with her for whole life

Tom lived a great life ahead with her and harry on the other hand selected a trendy gal for her who divorced him and ran away with some other guy :P

Thursday, September 1, 2011

All is Game of mind.......Just that how well you play it

Let me introduce to my new article which says that Mind is supreme of all ,the instantaneous reactions of people to a particular situation always determines there fate in that particular situation.All is game its just that I well you play in a particular situation.We never know when the game begins we only become aware when the game ends because by the time we have lost the Game and the so called deadly war.A war which was off pride and honor A war which might have instigated people to revere us.

The problem with the human psychology is he/she not identifies the time when the game starts therby leading to a folly situation where one might end up taking his/her life.The proximity to the beginning of the game can be sensed at then the strategy to the game must be planned in order to win it.Most of the time its a make or break situation however if your mind is tough and able to adapt in any situation then you may not fall prey to the predators /opponents.


Another issue arises from the protracted nature of the game .Once one fails, he/she is unable to reinvigorate himself/herself from the crisis in which he/she fallen into during the game.Its very important for you to come out from the situation as soon as possible.

When into the game one might get lost somewhere in some other world thereby neglecting the importance of the game.Its important will only be realized @ the end of the game when most of us will loose it.

Giving maximum to get maximum yield is the age old funda in Indian culture for that famous saying says "Today sown seeds will reap one day" and that day will be your judgement day.Most of the time people from different backgrounds shock me when they say how can we apply our knowledge in the game.Remember this game is a common sense game that a 5 year old might play but the mere difference is that in the level of the game which a 5 year old might face will be lower then yours.

Game depends on your mind and mental toughness its jus that how well u manage !!!!!