Yeh Delhi Hain Mere Yaar

Yeh Delhi hei mere yaar......bas ishq mohabbat pyaar.....!!!!The song composed which was a real hitter from the film Delhi-6 does not only shows that "Dilli hei dil walo ki" but also signifies the blend of mix cultures that live in harmony @ Delhi.Please don't get me wrong I am not a Delhite as they say when at a typical interview day and you me a guy/gal who blabbers in English you say yes "This guy/gal is a delhite and he /she is just flaunting" :P.That is the peril which people feel for a delhite.I am not born in delhi it has just been above two years that I have been in delhi,but yes I am in love with this place.

Be it old Delhi or New Delhi you can find people from every state ,every religion living and pursuing their business in harmony.Yes,when I say I am proud to live in Delhi I mean it,the place has various cultures ,traditions,views.Be it chandni chowk where you can shop around for your marriage or be it cannuaght place where you can buy cheap and durable stuff.This is the place where the Rickshaw puller wears a branded shirt of Armani and to my delight the beggar wears a pair of shoe of Nike/Reebok, it is possible only in delhi.Coming to the food delicacies you have non-veg/beg options anywhere you go in delhi.

The most famous "paranthe wali galli" @ chandni chowk or for non-veg you can move to "Karim's".Khan chacha is another favorite of non-veg lovers.Coming to the upbringing of cultural tradition in Delhi we have an image of whole of India @ Delhi Haat where a display of food and art from each and every state of our country binds people together.Delhi has much more for art lovers,skipping the much known monuments of old Delhi like Lal Quila/jama masjhid we have hauz khas village for the designers.

And like me there are millions who found true love of their life @ Delhi.I hope after reading a brief introduction about "Dil walo ki nagari" you may find it instigating that you would like to visit Delhi at once.And yes I bet on that that you gonna love it.Its not just the Delhi metro where you just name the place and Delhi metro will serve you or be it a optimal service of DTC bus ,the love and affection this place offers won't let you leave this city.
 Saurabh

A real Hero!! A real role model !!

It was the time of peak summers ,it was all dry everywhere ,the leaves ,the trees ,the people around ,it was a peak summer ,all sweat on humans.While I drove away from Jaipur to Delhi with my elder sister for meeting my brother in law.A keen guy ,and when I say keen its in all aspects of his characteristics.He was keen for meeting people,he was keen for serving people around,he was keen for enjoying moments,he was keen for helping relatives ,friends and even his foes which I challenge he might not be having as far as I know him.By the time our bus entered the well known "Bikaner House" at cannuaght place ,New Delhi,there was a person waiting inside the car for us.It happens with people usually that you meet a person you feel strange ,the counter party has the same feeling and yes being no exception I felt the same.It was mere communication of 2-3 lines I noticed the guy having respect for all surrounding him.Yes we reached home it was the dusk of I think one of the days from June first week 2006.It would have been years with him life long but the moment it turned against us it wasn't the demise of a single person,it was a demise of entire ambiance he created for my family and he made everyone happy.Be it initiating the diagnose of my mother who is struggling from 'Arthritis' ,a creature who now also don't know how to thank him as he disappeared without telling us where he is going.

Its not I have to count his good work because if I would start I will end up in the dawn counting his good work.Well this guy his name is "Karun Arora" a young blood with a cool heart,a dedicated employee,husband,son,brother ,and most important I must say for me technically he was "brother-in-law",But after I met him and the days which passed by he himself deleted "in-law" part from the word from my heart.I always felt him as an elder brother,a self motivated person who created a positive energy all around,a person with whom you don't have to share your emotions he just reads you and asks what the problem was.Its been 4 years of life with him,I always fought with my mother that I she didn't gave me brother who was always there in my failures and success,he was the person who filled that gap during my period of struggle when I gave my interviews.Day in Day out be it a 11 o clock in night or 4 o clock in the morning he will serve you ,may be your family,relatives,frens and off course office.

Its not that my writing is very limited if I will write for him,but its true the 4 years he gave us were full of life.The weekend drinks ,the outing @ malls in gurgaon,and the shopping it was all fun with him .He suggested me with ideas I was stumbling on making decisions.You take any example of this person and you will see one peculiar thing /characteristic of his which is hard to find in today's world and that was a characteristic of "Serving Others".You ask him a favor and I bet he will be at your doorstep without complaining and without expecting anything in return.May be I haven't met him many a times,but the time I spent with this person I used to laugh laugh and just laugh,the drinks the snacks,pulling up bottles for weekend,the "egg bhurji' and much more.Very honestly the time you departed till now I haven't felt you but the smile on my "bhanji's" face tells it all.We people are sinners and don't deserve your attention its true,but I just wanna say few lines which I hope is conveyed to you:

Oh nadaan parindey
Ghar aaja..
Oh nadaan parindey
Ghar aaja..

Yes ,We are sinners and that is why we are punished with the calamity which happened to be on"11 Mar 2011" a year of darkness ,a year of sorrow , a year which will be in our diaries , a year which passed and now I am feeling as if I had seen you long back .You might have left this world but surely

Power Of Sub-Conscious !!!

Far from the personal experiences and taking examples from the lives of the people I have been speculating about the dilemma that accompanies everybody's life.Yes the dilemma that every time bugs you in your mind ,the dilemma of the purpose of your life ,the dilemma about the definition of a real ideal life,a dilemma of the aim and target in life and many more.My say for this point of time is just let it go and enjoy the life let the dilemma be handled by your sub conscious.

When in the early morning you wake up with the sunlight reaching your face directly or indirectly your sub conscious mind takes time to come into real senses and treat the day like a daily routine day.Your sub conscious takes time to revive the speed/power and to comply with the daily routine.Have you ever speculated how we pursue inchoate thinking with our sub conscious mind?The answer is no,as the human mind behaves awkwardly with the sub conscious.You want to know each and everything about how a sub conscious works I would suggest you to talk to a person who is drunk.

To let the dilemma be handled by your sub conscious mind I mean to say that the questions that you want to ask your self you convey it to your sub conscious which in the end communicates with the inner self and gets the answers.So,if you can infer the sub conscious works as an interface between you and your inner self and then your queries are answered.

I never say that clarifying dilemma is sole prerogative of the sub conscious I would rather suggest you to treat sub conscious as your friend to let it go and clear your dilemmas so that you may devote your time not clearing the dilemmas but just focusing on your personal and professional life.Though the saying again goes true "easy said then done", because human mind is a restless creature , it doesn't want to rest it just needs answers to its questions then and there itself,it is the most impatient one.So ,the patience needs to be imbibed and let your sub conscious discover some of the extraordinary discoveries about your inner self.

Saurabh