New Year with a Bash With a Bang and sometimes with a Bore !!!

I may say that I want to enjoy to the full on 31st midnight @ 12 so that I may be happy the whole year.I may not have money to spend on lavish parties and pubs but I may seek happiness other way.Its not that happiness can only be in spending,I find myself happy creating philosophy of my own,someone else could find happiness when he/she accompanies near and dear ones,someone else might find happiness in "Hangover".So there are numerous different ways of different people to seek happiness,so all poor people you can also buy a "pauaa" and enjoy the new year's eve.I don't offend the concept of new year parties ,the concept throws light that if your happy in first few moments of the coming year then you would remain happy the whole year.But this idea is ruined and I am dubious that the youth might know this idea,they just want to run for the parties and follow western culture.They may forget to even wish there parents the early morning of "Jan 01" as they are drunk.The mere idea of parties is not followed by the youth and even organizers are ruining it as they are getting maximum profits on the eve of 31st.I can enjoy alone as I am a "born failure" and a "Born philosopher" I don't need the feeds of party.The early morning of Jan 01 which should be full of fun and frolic passes as dull and boring due to "hangover".I must say that its time for "Resolutions" and "Regrets"."Resolutions" for the coming year and "Regrets" for the gone year,but realizing "Regrets" would only be frutiful if you work upon the mistakes and wrong deeds of yours in the coming year.Yes yes its time for enjoyment but at the same time its time for "Resolutions",resolutions that would make your coming year unforgettable yes its true the year to become prosperous you have to work hard.My wishes are with each and everyone irrespective of whether foe or friend but a suggestion according to my philosophy is "Enjoyment" and "Resolutions" should go hand-in-hand .First of all examination of life is must because just continuing your routine daily without knowing purpose of life is all waste.Njoy the year

Happy New Year "2011"

Friends Oh dare touch dem I will kill you

A saying so common but rarely understood by people of "Kalyug","A friend in need is a friend indeed.Yes the saying is 100 percent true but depends on one's perspective and the conditions in which one person spends his/her childhood,schoolhood and collegehood.How he/she takes her friend as time pass,as a source of dependency for cynical motives,or takes her in the sense in the feelings as if his/her soul lies inside his/her friends soul.The latter feeling is the right one according to me.As friendship is the only one relation which you have the freedom to sought it out.Some important characteristics of friendship is it is flexible,strong(depends on person to person),sacrificial,synchronized etc.It can have negative characteristics also if a person is a dum ass and he doesn't know how friendship is searched/sought out.

May be the saying sounds so selfish "in need" but yes the saying when applied to real life reveals 1000 qualities about your near and dear ones.A friend is one with whom you can share a 1000 words of secret which you are unable to share with anyone else.A friend is the one who calls you @ midnight and says pee off.A friend is one who locks your hostel door outside and goes to class .He s the one who enjoys when he teases you.He is the one who when teases you,its you only who enjoys the most.I love the relation not just because I am the authority to make it or break it neither do I love it just because I am searching this relation and scrutinizing ,I just love it just because of its positive characteristics.Its like a clay model the shape you are able to give it takes that.The amount of hard work you do on this model the more you get satisfied,moreover if you are unable to make a good model of clay and destroyed it you may or may not have a chance of making it up and making it up as good as possible.

Friend makes it possible when your account balance is nil and then also you go to pub,clubs,malls etc.He is the one who says "chalna yaar" then you don't care about "money".He is the one whose positive qualities can make you "Ambaani" also.He is the one standing behind you when you pee off @ principal's office gate.He is the one with you when you fire crackers in class rooms.He is the one standing besides you when principal is scolding you and talks are about your suspension.He is the one who everytime wants you to be @ the top.He is the one dats y i am saying he is the onle "ONE".

Friendship is like a "Chocobar".You eat it properly or if you don't you take a plate beneath it so that its not wasted or else you finish it off in proper time so that its not melted.In friendship the timings is most important which can "make or break" a relation.

What do you think Do u love it?

Mr. Lonely

Hi I am Mr. Lonely,Nobody cares for me,Nobody talks with me,Nobody invites me I am so lonely.But yes after all I am satisfied of being lonely as I dont have to entertain people for unnecessary reasons.I being in my house don't have to care WTF my neighbor is doing.Whether "sheila" is good or "Munni" I damn care about that.I just care for my almighty my lord who created these toys some are bad some are really good they don't map to me.These toys including me are so good that they remain busy serving themselves thinking very less about fellow creatures.Oh Lord plz forgive me If I am wrong and do the same even if I am culprit but one request from me to you is when you make these toys,just give them only one sense ,forget about 5 major senses required for living,just give him one sense ,that sense which is utmost needed in this cruel world,that sense which if everyone has then it could be a beautiful world,that sense which guides a person of his/her wrong doings towards fellow creatures.Yes you guessed it rite "A Sense Of HUMANITY ".Give these toys a sense of humanity so that they may live in harmony and peace.They leave all these fights for proving there egos and them as supremacists.As you also know no one is supreme except you.So why don't you guide to my frens to just have some feelings for others,love others,respect others and there feeling.

Humanity not only says just "live and let live" it says that people/humans/creatures are inter dependent it means that,Each and every creature is dependent on other in some or the other way.so in this atmosphere of dependency lets start a "MARATHON" a Marathon of love a Marathon of dignity,A marathon of altruism,a marathon of "philanthropy" ,lets run come on lets run from this darkness of "EGO" towards bright light of "Humanity".

Lets throw our egos in a dustbin which we left far behind and even forgot where we have thrown it.Lets imbibe within us a quality of life a respect inside for us and for fellow creatures.

Lets LIVE,Lets LIVE,Lets LIVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sometimes,Something that Sounds "Special" Might be a "SARCASM'

Yes Guyss its true,Just give me one chance I desire to express myself to justify how sarcastic "Special" might affect your plan.It was the time when we started our journey to "WAGAH' border,we group of 6 people expected our plan to be a success.It was the ideal time for this trip with all odds in favor of us.Everyone got to railway station on time,Suteriyas had there "Sutta's",everyone had dinner.All set for a well planned journey with one compartment occupied by us.Ready for a nap it was dark chilling night with people covered with blankets and chilling wind energy blowing them to the minimum temperature.People chit chatting around our compartment,enjoying there ride,all are happy as they know they gonna reach there destinations on time.But irony is that we serving in a organization who's tag line itself says "Experience Uncertainty" and we ignored it.I would like to quote some of the poor jokes here like one person who's name was "Pappu" asked "Mehra ji" "Ki mehra ji Just switch off A/C I m feeling cold",For your knowledge we were in "Sleeper" Coach.One more killer and I will end this one else the article will bore you Pappu to Mehra Ji "Yaar light band kardo jyada chalogey toh Gaadi se utarte time Railways wale aur paise maang lenge" :P.There were many to just get feel of people around you in a sleeper coach.Next morning it was 5 'o clock and the station we reached was "saharnpur" I just got out of my berth just to get a cup of tea.I took tea came back and slept off again,believe me that is a great time pass in traveling,you feel bored just sleep.Next time I woke up and when I opened my eyes the person who was in my vision @ the opposite berth was not there anymore.The feeling was as if everything went stable as if "The day earth stood still".See there is difference in A train standstill and a train moving like a "Rajdhani".So I felt the presence I heard the sounds of chai walas and pakore walas I thought it was the station next to "saharanpur" .But believe it or not it was "saharnpur" and was like a shock to me as our whole plan messed up with this sudden disaster on Christmas eve.We went to station master for clarifications on schedule of train but you all know how government employees answer your query @ these times.We came back with this "Uncertain" atmosphere in and around with 3 from our group selling horses while sleeping unaware of situation.train started off after a delay of 5 hours and brought a little sunlight in the moment of darkness.I thought we will make it but didnt knew we will break it.train stopped at stations where on one bench was sufficient to give driver rest in sunlight.Platforms just with one bench and one board and one Signal light were sufficient to attract our driver to stop the train.train even gave Some two wheelers the way as a gesture.I was surprise with the name of the train and its action ,train's name was "Special",No kidding guyzz its true.We left our train @ ambala with our planned ruined and started our trip to jalandhar.Once when we left "Ambala" just after 20-30 kilometers we saw our train parallel with our bus running and with no doubts about that train overtook.So its a kind advice never believe in the word special because it might have "Hidden Sarcasm" which is not visible and which might play with your heart and soul...............And sometimes with your plan as happened with me :P

Religious Calamity is worst den Natural calimity

Communal riots is that what I fear most??? or is it Natural disaster such as earthquakes,floods etc.Oh no lord the frequency of communal calamity is more then natural calamity so I fear the former one the most.

When a baby is born in a family he/she is so cute and modest irrespective of what community he belongs to,he is not aware of how messed up life outside world is?.With people fighting over issues of religion when they don't know that major issue of this world is climate change.

What we will get after fighting what we ought to fight with is what we are not doing.I just lament on this poor situation of man,he call himself so intelligent and for him it is a hard task to find which problem is more severe.And why these in my country only Lord just for the reason I face less tsunami's or Katrina's like Indonesia and other countries so that you are compensating that in the form of Communal riots.No Lord I cant take this I cant digest this foolishness of man fighting over issues of "JIHAAD" or "Religious Egos".I wanna make "mashjid" or want to make "temple" @ any specific place its not to be questioned because its all the same ,I don't know why people are not convinced that there is only one "Supreme Power" that is governing the whole world.Figuratively speaking the world government is "Unicameral" and the "House" members are different gods/religions,but the main power lies in the hands of "Supreme Power".

So why not lets assume "Nature" to be our goddess and follow her as we know that what nature gave us is invaluable in any terms.Lets not let her destroyed by us only ,come on guyzz lets not be so selfish to destroy this beautiful boon given to us by Supreme power.I love it why not you.And even if we are selfish for us for our children and for coming generations then its okay lets be selfish and do something @least for the coming generations.

Lets join hands and go hand-in-hand to save our goddess because if we will work against her a time will come when she will be standing in front of us taking a shape of volcano.A time will come When she will make us dance of the floor on the tunes of "Nature Ki Jawaani".A time will come when fisherman who throw nets to capture the nature will be captured by her in the form of "Tsunamis".A time will come when she will make us swim on our beds when she will come in the form of floods.A time will come when there will be no ice in "Himalayas" and what we will see is just another harsh face of "Nature" which I dont want to see.I just fear only that moment not for me not for my children I just fear for "Humanity" I just fear for the whole "MANKIND"

"What u learn is wat u earn"

Learn Learn Learn,thats the only word that we hear throughout our life from our childhood.Some important factors that adds to the "aspect of learning" are firstly,what is to be learnt?,what is the individual's interests,what are the resources available,what are alternative interests,how he/she pursues interests,how his/her interests gonna benefit him/her.The most important thing is whether an individual does the work which he likes or not because is one does the work he likes definitely he will excel in that field.the knowledge that one gets never gets wasted as "what u learn" is gonna benefit ur surroundings and society one or the other day.So its correct to the point "wat u learn is wat u earn".Just u have to remove "L" from "Learn" to make it to "earn" and that "L" stands for "Lethargy".So remove that word from the word "Learn" and convert it into money.whatever comes in front of you just start learning because sooner or later it will pay you off.And never balance knowledge with money as money is "temporary" but knowledge is "permanent"

Here Comes D salary

Here comes d salary,here comes d salary yipeee!!!!,the last working day of the month in the organization is very important for the employee.Everyone is happy as they get salary on that day,but the thing is that "Till when this happiness going to last?" A day two or 15 at maximum.Its not about handling your money with too much of conscience,its about playing with money.Liquidity is the right word for monetary policies of an individual,so one should always think of investments and returns.The success of an individual merely depends upon how u play with money?"One major formula is the inflow/returns should always be more then inflow/expenditure.Other aspect of money spending is that one should always invest/spend money @ right time and for right thing.The sequence of steps that u need to follow are available on various websites regarding how to spend money more wisely?.Apart from the points that are mentioned already on internet,i would like to draw your attention to the following:
The day ur salary gets credited to ur account:
1.Prepare a budget for ur expediture
2.Comply with budget.
3.Go for some invesment plans or else trading.
4.Save a pinch of money if possible every month.
5.Prioritize your expenditure.
6.Get ur Debts clear ASAP.
7.Plan for your emergency.
8.stay away from creditors.

Go for the above steps and see the sweetness and satisfaction that money brings to you.

Nothing is above you,u r d best!!!!

U might be confused about the title what it is about and how you should perceive it.Well dont confuse too much with the title its about encouraging yourself @ times you are depressed.Its about human nature and mentality,its about his avarice towards materialistic things and his needs so he ignores the realm of spirituality.Ask urself what you do whole life except worrying about ur desire and ur ambitions.Most of us do things in everyday life but rarely one do things differently,everyone is after money and they work to extreme to get it but had we ever thought of other human beings on earth who dont even get a bread in a day to eat.So,@least be thankful to god what u have and others dont have.There is one famous proverb "desire is the root cause of evil" but i contradict that ,man without desire is useless aimless,everyone should have desire for anything it can be materialistic or non-materialistic.The right vocabulary for this is "Greed" that is the thing when a man want to possess more then one thing of similar kind on the expense of others.As I write this, the world is reeling from a financial meltdown, and entire industries are on the edge of collapse. The crisis has many causes, but a big one is that a many great people took many great decisions just because they got greedy.But when we realize what money is? and to what extent it matters,den its very late.I dont say that "want" should be destroyed totally as one person has to live,and to live he is dependent on so many things and people both in his professional life and personal life.So satisfying "right wants" is right,running for life pleasures and comforts throughout ur life is not justified.

The decision is urs!!!!!!