A saying so common but rarely understood by people of "Kalyug","A friend in need is a friend indeed.Yes the saying is 100 percent true but depends on one's perspective and the conditions in which one person spends his/her childhood,schoolhood and collegehood.How he/she takes her friend as time pass,as a source of dependency for cynical motives,or takes her in the sense in the feelings as if his/her soul lies inside his/her friends soul.The latter feeling is the right one according to me.As friendship is the only one relation which you have the freedom to sought it out.Some important characteristics of friendship is it is flexible,strong(depends on person to person),sacrificial,synchronized etc.It can have negative characteristics also if a person is a dum ass and he doesn't know how friendship is searched/sought out.
May be the saying sounds so selfish "in need" but yes the saying when applied to real life reveals 1000 qualities about your near and dear ones.A friend is one with whom you can share a 1000 words of secret which you are unable to share with anyone else.A friend is the one who calls you @ midnight and says pee off.A friend is one who locks your hostel door outside and goes to class .He s the one who enjoys when he teases you.He is the one who when teases you,its you only who enjoys the most.I love the relation not just because I am the authority to make it or break it neither do I love it just because I am searching this relation and scrutinizing ,I just love it just because of its positive characteristics.Its like a clay model the shape you are able to give it takes that.The amount of hard work you do on this model the more you get satisfied,moreover if you are unable to make a good model of clay and destroyed it you may or may not have a chance of making it up and making it up as good as possible.
Friend makes it possible when your account balance is nil and then also you go to pub,clubs,malls etc.He is the one who says "chalna yaar" then you don't care about "money".He is the one whose positive qualities can make you "Ambaani" also.He is the one standing behind you when you pee off @ principal's office gate.He is the one with you when you fire crackers in class rooms.He is the one standing besides you when principal is scolding you and talks are about your suspension.He is the one who everytime wants you to be @ the top.He is the one dats y i am saying he is the onle "ONE".
Friendship is like a "Chocobar".You eat it properly or if you don't you take a plate beneath it so that its not wasted or else you finish it off in proper time so that its not melted.In friendship the timings is most important which can "make or break" a relation.
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